What’s therapy like with me?
Each therapist has their own style, so I want to help you get a sense of what sessions are like with me. I offer a trauma-informed, collaborative approach to therapy.
I will be transparent about what we’re working on, and find the level of challenge that you’re ready for to support your growth. I want you to witness shifts in your life, and feel like the work and investment of therapy is worth it, but still at a speed that feels supportive and sustainable for you.
The “types of therapy” I use are EMDR, ACT, and IFS-Informed therapy. What do those mean?
EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing. In non-clinical terms, EMDR is an evidenced-based therapy with strong effectiveness that has clients use simple body movements (tapping or moving your eyes) while talking to support their mind and body to process the past, and build new mindsets and insights. I’ve found it helps clients get out of their heads and into the core of what’s going on for them, so they can bring new supportive mindsets into their lives post-therapy. EMDR works on trauma, but also any challenges and behavior loops that you might have struggled to shake-off or “power-through.”
ACT stands for Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. With ACT we use metaphors, and education around the avoidance patterns all humans engage in to avoid their feelings, which often just leads to more struggles. Many clients feel seen with ACT therapy, there’s a “yup, we all do that” feel to it. In addition to building awareness, ACT supports clients to see what they can do to change. I love using ACT to help you build a sense of agency in your life, and feeling more connected to your values even when times are hard.
IFS-Informed Therapy draws from Internal Family Systems theory. My translation of this therapy is “working with the different sides of you, and learning how to feel in the driver’s seat of your decisions even when different parts of you are loud and trying to control your choices.” You might have a loud inner-critic, an anxious and vigilant part, or an unmotivated part of yourself, and want to connect to who “you” are, instead of feeling like these other parts are in the spotlight. In IFS-Informed therapy, we get to know the different aspects of your personality while also connecting to your “core self.” Overtime you learn strategies to live and act from your “core self” while respecting the other parts of you, without letting them call all the shots.
How does Therapy Start?
During the first couple sessions, we will explore your current and past challenges to formulate a treatment plan with goals that are meaningful to you. I offer suggestions, while taking a trauma-informed approach and respecting what you’re ready to work on. I will get a sense if EMDR, ACT, or IFS-informed therapy fits best for your treatment goals, and you’ll get to share what style resonates for you.
While we work on your goals, I will attune to how you’re showing up each day and over the course of treatment. Somedays, we will lean into areas of growth, and other sessions I will offer a container of compassion and resourcing to ground you. I care deeply about co-creating a space where all parts of yourself can show up. I have lots of experience with a dynamic approach that weaves in structure, psycho-education, mindfulness, creativity, and playful metaphors.